A woman on FaceTribe posted two amazing stories:
One:
"Today
at the laundromat, the man was standing in an odd way, hunched yet
looking ready to pounce. I asked if he was using the wheeled laundry
basket near him. He mumbled something incoherent and made an odd
gesture. I'm accustomed to people
around here purposefully being vague as a power trip, that way any
action you take they can act 'diss-ed' by and put you down for it. I
didn't want to play that game today, so I said, "I'm sorry, I couldn't
understand your response, was that a yes or a no?" More incoherency and a
stronger, indecipherable gesture. With a thank you, I took the cart.
Over the next hour I watched him, always odd, strange eyed, not
responding or interacting 'normally.' He wandered, fiddled with odd
things, kept his back to the wall, kept glancing to the door. He never
spoke to anyone, and generally kept his eyes averted from anyone else's.
He began to look like a little boy who was trying to act cool but who
was actually really scared.
As I was folding the last of my
sheets a woman came in, gave this man a smile, a gentle touch on his
shoulder and a kiss. His whole demeanor softened, his eyes bathed in
her face. He smiled. Her hands started moving. Slow, cautious sign
language. He responded slow, measured, as though just learning.
As I was walking out, the staff woman, who had seen me watching them
together, told me "He came back from Iraq two years ago deaf, and was so
angry he refused to learn sign language. He made it his New Years
resolution this year to learn. He said he's doing it because he loves
his wife so much."
It is so easy for me to judge, to assume, to become fearful. Yet, I never know a stranger's story. Never.
May I ever grow in my compassion. Ever grow. ah ho."
Two:
"Easter morning:
The sound was unmistakable - adult bird stuck in the rain gutter down
spout, about mid second story. I investigated and said "There's nothing
I can do. I don't have an extension ladder, the screws are rusted
stuck and the pipe is anchored into the building mortar." Two hours
later the pipe was cut, the mortar chiseled out, eight feet of jammed
debris removed and an adult black bird
came flying out to gracefully land on the wires across the street. I
learned the bird had been in there for many days. There was fresh
greenery among the stuck debris, she was nest building when she fell in.
Later on a very skinny black bird landed on the tree near me and
tweeted and chirped as I gardened.
At first I was hopeless
saying there was nothing I could do. But I found I could do a lot. I
could open the tomb. Happy Easter!"
i am so covered in darkness, but there is so much light.
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